In His Own Words
About him
Some may think I’m shy, but I’m just a tranquil, quietly spoken guy. Always respectful, patient and openly sociable to chatting with anyone, especially if they have a dog! I have a fun sense of humour and guilty of teasing at times.
I’ve been married to, and sadly lost, in different ways, two amazing ladies, who have each shown me the courage and remarkable strengths of their gender. I’m an empathic and good listener, romantic, and totally enjoy closeness and sexiness.
Dislike politics, scammers, mysogony, and violence. I use social media sparingly, more often for selling stuff.
I love walking in the countryside, which is like a tonic medicine for me. I’ve been single for five years, coped admirably, I think, but now ready to seek more in life.
I love coast paths and sea air, moderate hill climbing, like in the Lake District, and generally exploring. Done over 15,000 miles touring uk and southern Europe in a motorhome until I sold it.
I love riding motorcycles when I have one. I’ll even ride a bicycle if necessary!
Repairing/mending things, reading books, enjoy amateur radio as a sometimes hobby, and trying hard to master the ukulele. I have passed two levels of reiki and channel it privately, for friends and family, and love it so much.
Since retiring from work I miss having a focus in life, but I may just need to visit Vison Express again🤓
I can cope well enough living on my own, most importantly I enjoy my space, but secretly dream of much missed hugs, kisses, and love, not necessarily on a 24 hour 7 day a week basis, but not ruled out completely. I love helping people, making them laugh, and encouraging them to feel good about themselves. Now it’s time I did something for me, for a change. Choice between travelling first class or economy? You’ll definitely find me in economy! I wear my heart on my sleeve, when it’s not reaching out to someone I truly enjoy being with.
About his ideal match
A loving, romantic, kind, patient and caring person, who looks nice, but doesn’t have to be an astounding beauty, who has looked after herself, eats a healthy diet, enjoys walking and talking, loving and laughing, chatting and discussion. One who is still amenable to holding hands in public, and cuddling up to watch a film together. A dog lover, maybe, with a good sense of humour, because she’d need one laughing at me, sometimes.
I’m not ashamed to admit that for me, the pleasure of having the right lady by my side supercharges my own confidence & outlook on life, gives me a raison d’etre, and is a catalyst for me to try new things, brings me out of myself. I miss that since flying solo. I’d say I require a navigator, but that suggests she wouldn’t be a pilot, I’m more than happy if she fills either role!
I’ve been told that I’ve been through a lot, & that I’ve given more of myself than maybe I should have, so resetting my circuits to regain lost ground over the past few years. I don’t mind what you bring with you, but this’ll be a fresh start for us both. Looking for a casual relationship, companionship/ friendship, a soulmate, first, closeness, and many hugs, and just maybe that’s a good enough recipe for what may follow.
What His Friends Say
SHARRON said...
I have known Paul for around eight years. We met as work colleagues. Paul is the kind of man who quietly goes about checking that everyone is ok and if you are not ok, he does his best to help. Paul is just a genuine thoughtful and caring guy. I think any lady would be lucky to have this man by their side; he would put her first, second and last! He definitely needs a loving lady who enjoys walking and dogs! Paul is absolutely capable of being alone and looking after himself, but he is simply not meant to be alone! He needs someone to love and take care of. Whoever finds him really will be a lucky lady!
About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Ross-on-Wye, Herefordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
73 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Secondary | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district HR9 (Ross-on-Wye) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
48 - 73 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 5" (164cm) - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Secondary; University / College student; Further education | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism; Retail; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
English; Other | ||
Other languages: |
Other | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Orange |
Hair style: |
Disappearing; It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear bifocals |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Romance; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Motoring; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Computer & video games; Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Music; Reading; Voluntary work; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Camping; Chess; Cycling; Flying / Gliding; Hiking; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Orienteering; Sailing; Shooting; Snooker; Snorkeling; Surf skiing/kayaking; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I don't have any family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Power; Sarcasm |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using Yours Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |