In Her Own Words
About her
My photo was taken in the spring this year so what you see is what you get. My brain is still sharp and so is my ample wardrobe. I was once a member of Mensa, but regret, I didn't make the most of my education. I worked mainly in office admin and was a credit controller, a position I enjoyed. I also worked for British Coal Enterprise when the demise of the coalfield meant there were so many ex BC employees looking for work and/or training.
I have a strong sense of fair play but a naughty sense of humour. I enjoy occasional dining out as well as quiet evenings at home. I have a caring nature and also enjoy cruises, quizzes and learning Spanish.
A Positive Mental Attitude is very important to me, as is personal hygiene.
I have a small dog that is my sole companion and I love her to bits.
I take pride in myself but never look good in photos. That's why there's only two.
I used to be a redhead but now my hair has turned blonde with age.
I still drive, but not at night, and I'm financially independent.
I don't need a carer, nor do I want to be a carer, I'm just looking for a companion. A big heart is more important than a big brain.
I'm looking for someone to share the good times, and to give a cwtch in the bad times.
About her ideal match
My ideal match would be a non smoker with an easy smile and a sense of humour, a glass half full type of guy. Not moody or possessive but protective.
Enjoys a drink and a chat but not a serious drinker. He should also be financially comfortable.
He can look after himself, and is well presented, but not too formal.
He should want a companion, not necessarily a commitment, just see how things pan out.
He should also like animals, although I'm happy with just one dog.
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
St Clears (Whitland), Carmarthenshire, Wales | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
79 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Other | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Orthodox |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district SA34 (Whitland) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
73 - 84 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average | ||
Looks: |
Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Celibacy; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Medium; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
Other |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Instrumental |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction; History |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Game shows; Nature/Wildlife; Soap operas; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance; Westerns |
Interests: |
Gardening; Knitting; Music; Reading; Shopping; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Walking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fine Dining; French; Pub Grub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Power |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Flirting; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Enjoying the comforts of home |
Feelings about using Yours Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed |
Honesty: |
Very |



