In His Own Words
About him
New on today 07-09-26
(edit 26/9) Esther Perel's research says that 90% of the women go for the top 1% of men on dating sites. After some time - and disappointment - they still go for the top 3%. Is that true here? If so, it's quite sad. All those missed opportunities passed up.
I'm here for a genuine relationship (not one night) that can grow was we discover each other. Mainly weekends and evenings (I work), but long term.
I'm very well educated, intelligent, articulate, erudite, with pleasant conversational skills and a gentle, genial (if dry) sense of humour and appreciation of the ridiculous. Sometimes sarcasm, sometimes irony and I have been known to delve into satire.
I'm generally laissez faire, but can focus, as my work attests.
I can be adventurous, but prefer comfort.
I don’t indulge in ego games or power plays. I'm not an 'alpha male'. I opted-out of that circus years ago. If you're that shallow, please move on.
Mutual respect, understanding and empathy, all the way.
I am told I'm thoughtful, kind and (mostly) non-judgemental, as well as a 'good listener'.
Professional. Independent, financially secure and can travel with my own car and campervan. I enjoy camping and go away often, but not so much in winter. (Remember what I said about comfort?)
I have eclectic music tastes, from classical to rock and pop.
If you have got this far, Thank you. I appreciate you taking the time and effort.
About his ideal match
Things I prefer
Intelligence.
Education.
Kind, empathetic, considerate.
Someone who talks and shares. Someone who won't order a dessert, but asks for two spoons with mine...
A sense of humour and a willingness to laugh with me or at me.
A good sense of realism, geography and practicality. I'm not a miracle worker.
My ideal match must not be;
*Shallow.
*Into right wing politics. If you're into that, we won’t get along.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Worcester (Pershore), Worcestershire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Public sector | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district WR10 (Pershore) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
45 - 64 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 8" (173cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Funny; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Mild; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Hair style: |
Short; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
None |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Internet; Music; Reading; Voluntary work; Woodwork |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Yours Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |